My collection of stereotypes comes from books, magazines, newspapers, movies, television shows, radio programs, news shows, conversations, etc. Sources can be 10s to 100s to 1000s of years old.
Stereotypes and categories overlap at times. I create categories of stereotypes as I have stereotype examples to put into those categories.
The research into gossip goes back at least to the middle of the 20th century. Both men and women research gossip. Putting all of their research together, this is my definition:
Gossip is talk and writing about people
— both other people and ourselves —
in family, social, workplace, and public settings.
Much of the research shows that gossip is both positive and negative. I define gossip as good, bad, or ugly. Good gossip ignores or breaks stereotypes. Bad gossip uses stereotypes. Ugly gossip manufactures stereotypes.
Negative stereotypes exist about everyone, no matter their age, gender, race, religion, profession, etc. These stereotype blog posts will help you understand the negative stereotypes about you.
If you use negative stereotypes about people who are different from you, you are inviting everyone who hears you to use negative stereotypes about you.
Stereotype Updates
I add stereotypes as I come across them.
I will add the new stereotypes at the bottom of each listing, putting ~~~~~ between the older stereotypes and the new stereotypes.
More Stereotypes
Negative Stereotypes Behind Bad & Ugly Gossip: People In General
Negative Stereotypes Behind Bad & Ugly Gossip: Ethnic, National, & Racial Identities
Negative Stereotypes Behind Bad & Ugly Gossip: Workplaces
Negative Stereotypes Behind Bad & Ugly Gossip: Poverty
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Romantic Relationships In General
Relationships Between Men & Women
war
The Most Successful Relationship Is Between
a man with a high level career and a woman with a low level career
Romantic Relationships Are Likely To End If
the woman has a high status career and stays in her career
Older Women With Younger Men
trying to hang onto youth
Younger Women With Older Men
golddiggers
If A Woman Fails While Her Partner Succeeds It Means…
the man had the ability to succeed
the woman didn’t have the ability to succeed
If A Woman Succeeds While Her Partner Fails It Means The Woman…
caused her partner’’s failure
could destroy the relationship
Women In Romantic Relationships
should give up jobs when children are born
should not accept a job offer that could jeopardize partner’s career
Abusive Relationships
Violence Happens Only In
heterosexual relationships
men do all the abusing
Women Battered By Men
masochists
castrators
flirts
blameless
Men Battered By Women
liars
freaks
Men Who Batter Women
hotheaded
drunk brutes
Woman Who Batter Men
drunk
unstable
shrewish
Individual Characteristics
Obese People
less attractive
lower self-esteem
less likely to be dating
less erotic
deserve fat, ugly partners
Men
Single Men
unhappy
interested in whether a prospective date has not girlfriends
looks at his watch because he’s bored
love women who dress like sluts
easy horn dogs
like skinny girls
like younger women
like big breasts, real or fake
like open relationships
commitment-phobes
don’t like aggressive women
always want to be dominant
want dumb women
Men Over 70
projects
Men Who Dress Revealingly
less liked
not sexy
Muscular Men
domineering
controlling
mean
abusive in relationships with overweight or underweight people
Messy Magician, Life Coach, “Crypto Guy” on The Bachelorette
shallow dates
Women
Single Women
unhappy
selfish
insecure
lonely
dysfunctional
desperate to find a mate
clueless about finances and investing
let their appearance go as they age
sex-starved
less healthy than married women
Women Who Dress Revealingly
seen by men as seductive
seen by women as not nice
Women Who Go To A Bar, Have A Nightcap In An Apartment, Dress Up
interested in sex
Women Who Drink Alcohol
sexually available
more aggressive
have few social skills
Opposite Stereotypes
Opposite Stereotypes #1
Women Battered By Men
masochists ≠ castrators
Points To Ponder
These stereotypes make abusive men inherently bad, ignoring “substance abuse, mental illness, childhood trauma, race, culture, and poverty.”
The stereotypes ignore the women who abuse men in romantic relationships. My mother was one of those abusers. She emotionally abused my father.
“Help for Men Who are Being Abused”
Lawrence Robinson and Jeanne Segal, PhD
HelpGuide
Last updated: January 2021.
“The Stereotyped Offender: Domestic Violence and the Failure of Intervention”
Carolyn B. Ramsay
Penn State Law Review
2015
“We Run a Hotline for Male Victims and Perpetrators of Domestic Violence”
Avi Mor and Malka Genachowski
Newsweek: My Turn
April 28, 2021
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Critical Thinking Questions
1. What’s happening?
2. Why is it important?
3. What don’t I see?
4. How do I know?
5. Who is saying it?
6. What else? What if?
Stereotype Thinking Questions
1. What is threatening my beliefs?
2. How can I make it unimportant?
3. What can I reject?
4. What can I laugh at?
5. How can I attack people who threaten my beliefs?
6. How can I deflect?
The stereotype thinking questions are mine, based on my observations of stereotype thinkers.
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Paula M. Kramer
© 2015 to the present
All rights reserved.
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